Variations in Marital Relations

Dynamics of Marriage and Family 3(3+0)

Lesson 4 : Preparation for Marriage

Variations in Marital Relations


There are wide variations in marital relations

Number of mates:

  • Taking the number of mating partners as variable, marital relations may be monogamous, polygamous and polyandrous.
  • Mating relation is monogamous where marriage is a union of one man and one woman.
  • Polygynous relations occurs where a man has right to have more than one wife.
  • In polyandrous, when a woman is simultaneously married to two or more men.

Kinds of mates: The personalities of the partners will have impact on marital relations.

Choice of mates: There are 2 possibilities i.e. based on choice of mates – love marriage or Arranged marriage. Secondly, exogamous and endogamous marital relations.

Exchange at marriage: It deals with what are the different arrangements that exist for the transfer of wealth at the marriage, there are 3 possibilities –

  • Wealth may be transferred by the husband or his kin to the bride’s family – bride’s price.
  • Wealth or dowry is a sum of money or property i.e. brought to the marriage by the girl – groom’s price.
  • It is the transfer of wealth in the form of gifts to help the young couple to set up the new household – wedding presents.

Degree of authority: Where the wife enjoys a subordinate position in relation to the husband, the marital status is patriarchal. The relation is matriarchal, where husband enjoys a subordinate position in relation to the wife.

Strength of bond: Marriage is the sanctioning by a society of a durable bond between a man and woman. If the marital relations exist for a very short period, it is called temporary. If the couple overcomes the differences without going for divorce, the marital relations remain unbreakable.

Possibility of remarriage: On the basis of possibility of remarriage, there may be 3 kinds of marital relations – no marriage after death or divorce, permissive remarriage, mandatory remarriage.

Residence after marriage: There are 3 possible relations which depend upon the residence set up by the young people.

  • When a man moves to his wife’s family’s household, matrilocal.
  • If the wife joins her husband’s family’s household, patrilocal
  • When the married couple set up a new residence, neolocal.

Age at marriage: On the basis of age at marriage, there are 2 possibilities of marital relations – Early and Late marriages.

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