Social Readiness

Dynamics of Marriage and Family 3(3+0)

Lesson 7 :Readiness for marriage

Social Readiness

Marriage is a social act that greatly affects society. It brings in new status to the individual along with new social roles and interpersonal relations in the family – a basic social unit. It also constitutes of various marriage rituals and customs, which have special symbolic significance. Thus, social readiness with respect to marriage refers to:

  • At least a general understanding of what marriage means in the cultural context – its concept, functions, duties, privileges and obligations. Besides this, readiness to undergo the ceremonies and rituals of marriage with sufficient understanding of their symbolic meaning.
  • Having established a healthy measure of trust, autonomy, initiative, accomplishment and identity before they are ready for intimacy since it is the level at which a person requires the ability to give and receive love needed to begin making long-term commitments to relationships that get formed through marriage.
  • Being able to over look the shortcomings of others and focus on our own and to think not only of our self, but be concerned about the welfare of another.
  • Having capacity for kindness, compassion and companionship for others and the ability to collaborate, cooperate and consult with others to solve problems.
  • Possessing civic virtues and being equipped in performing some socially redeemable service to society in which one lives as well as humanity as a whole that can also contribute to the well-being of the marriage and family.
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